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Dating Advice For Men – How Well Do You Present?

If women had to judge men the way we judge them the the future of our species will be in serious trouble. Thankfully for us guys, the emphasis on looks and appearance is pretty slack and women tend to look past all that stuff – eventually. If you think that you can be slob and look like something from an 80′s dumpster and land that hot girl, then you are making a massive mistake. You need to present well – at all times. First impressions count for a lot and women are very god at seeing “details”.

If you are not naturally stylish and even if you think you dress cool and look cool, then these are some important tips you have to pay attention to. For most guys that don’t look like Brad Pitt this will make all the difference.

Body Hair -
In general women find body hair on certain parts of the body sexy. Chest hair is okay, but nose hair, ear hair and back hair is not. Facial hair can be good or bad – depending on how it looks on you. As a rule of thumb beards and goatees are not a good idea and although some guys can pull it off, most women won’t like it.

Wardrobe
Attractive women are very conscious of a man’s wardrobe. It says a lot about you and if you think that you can wear just about anything and impress an attractive girl, then you are making a big mistake. Being “hip” and “with it” is more important to women then you being yourself. Open any men’s magazine and turn to the style section to see what’s in fashion. Then buy yourself some of it and wear it.

Skin
Good skin is something that is universally attractive. If you don;t take good care of yourself and you have bad skin then its time to do something about it. It can be a turn off and if you really want a girl that rates in the 8/10 and above category then you need to shape up. If you have acne, go and see your doctor and get a prescription of antibiotics to clear it up. Its not that big a deal. Just sort it out. Also, there is nothing gay about moisturizing and using a good after shave. Women notice these things and it will make you look better and feel more confident.

General Hygiene
There is nothing that puts a girl off more than a dirty guy. Make sure that you wash yourself properly. Your ears, your nails, your nose – keep it clean. Its very prominent and can put a girl off for good. Also, when you do invite her over to your house, please wash the bathroom. Nothing says “sif” the way a dirty bathroom does.

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Spicing Up Your Presentation

You made your checklists, did your research, organized your information, and wrote out your speech. You have all the makings of an informative presentation. The only problem is, nobody will be informed, persuaded, or otherwise moved by your presentation if it fails to capture and maintain attention.

The very first step is to pick a medium. If possible, a PowerPoint presentation is typically ideal. Not only is the digital medium unmatched in versatility, but it also allows for printed supplemental materials that serve to support your presentation as opposed to weighing it down. A well-made PowerPoint consists of clear and concise slides that are organized for maximum impact. A great PowerPoint, however, takes things a step further. Employ carefully selected images and stock video footage, sparingly-applied music and sound effects, and even an occasional nudge of humor, and you will be looking at a truly effective presentation.

Be warned! Spicing up a droll presentation is just like spicing up a bland dish: too much spice, and it becomes impossible to consume. Stock video footage can add tremendously to the value of a presentation, but throw moderation to the wind and you will find yourself with a product that spends far too much time on the peripheries and fails to effectively deliver the pertinent message. If music and sound effects are inserted judiciously, the presentation will come off as unprofessional and even obnoxious. Moderation is especially key in the use of humor; if there is a place for it, err heavily on the side of subtlety and caution.

A good rule of thumb when deciding whether or not to add something to your presentation is to ask yourself, “What am I trying to do by adding this?” For example, if the addition is meant to lighten the mood, ensure that the mood needs lightening, and that your addition is appropriately structured and placed to do so.

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Starting Your Presentation Like a Pro

I want to make sure that you understand that the introduction to your speaker presentation is not called the opening. This introduction is also not your life biography. Largest way too many speakers that think that their life bio is what should be read before the speak curse reaches the podium. A speaker’s introduction really should not be taken lightly, if someone wants to know your bio I’m sure they can read in the program of defendant handout. The importance of the speaker’s introduction is often overlooked. Think about the introduction sets the stage for the speaker.

Here’s what your intro should answer:
- Why are you speaking about this particular subject?
- Are you qualified to speak about what you’re about to speak about?
- And of course why now?

You want to answer why the subject that you’re going to be speaking about is relevant and of the interest to the audience you’re speaking to. So you’re really answering the WI I FM to the audience what’s in it for me because that’s what your audience is asking themselves right before you reach the podium to start your speech. Of course you could always add a number of things which rule help the audience perceive you as an authority on the subject you’re about to speak about. For example mention your work experience, of life experience, awards and any other accomplishments which make you an authority to speak about this subject you’re talking about. So not only is important for you to actually write down this introduction that you want said before your speech. You might want to get a hold of who ever will be doing the introduction to your speech. Make sure they have a clear copy of what you want said before your talk starts.

People remember the beginning and end of every single interaction and talk and you want to make sure that the beginning of your talk is memorable.

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